" Believe, when you are most unhappy, that there is something for you to do in the world. So long as you can sweeten another's pain, Life is not in vain. " - Hellen Keller (1880 - 1968)





A Heart Felt Welcome To You....

I am a mother of 3 children, who has now passed the stage of the "Biological Clock ." I lost my planned and very much wanted precious first child - a son "Nicholas" - at 19 weeks & 4 days gestation, due to birth defects. My 2 other children are the love of my life, and I treasure every moment I spend with them. I am currently studying to be a counsellor while also hoping to finish writing a book this year, about my life's experiences & many challenges.



You can also catch a summary by viewing my complete profile. I'd love you to stay awhile, to hopefully be comforted and inspired by my writing, and enjoy the read! Please post a comment, I would love to hear from you. xxxx



Please click on the Picture of Nicholas' Home Page to read my story of losing my first child "Darling Precious Angel Son In Heaven".













My Memorial Site

I Also Have A Special Memorial Site Named:

"Eternal Names By The Sea"

Especially To Honour Our Precious Loved One's, if you would like to have a look, leave a name request or post a comment, just click on the photo on the right hand side of my page.

Or feel free to click on the link below:

http://eternalnamesbythesea.blogspot.com/

I would love to hear from you xxxx

I am very happy to do this as a special touch from my heart to yours, as the pain of losing a precious loved one is very heartbreaking.

I am always here for you xxxx



Friday, February 27, 2009

Many People Are In Pain

Today was the first day of my course in: "Bachelor Of Social Science (Counselling) in the city, which I am very excited to be doing. Once I graduate, I want to specialise in "Grief & Trauma Counselling".
As we have all seen here in Victoria, from the recent devastating bushfires, there are many people in pain.
But also many other people are in pain from other horrific events.
On my way home on the train, I met a lovely man, who has recently returned from fighting in Iraq. I felt such sympathy, admiration, compassion, and empathy for him. This poor man is now totally devastated & guttered, after everything he has seen, and had to do over there
(Including having to kill 2 men)!!!!!! His life as he once knew it, is now no longer.
He has been placed on a "Army & Centrelink Pension" for the rest of his life, he desperately wants to be the way he once was, but after an experience like that, is it ever possible?
What does "WAR" ever achieve?
Other than too many people being killed, and never coming home to their loved ones. And for the others who (Are lucky to come home alive) are never the same again!!!!!!
These wonderful men & women who put their lives on the line for others, deserve our utmost gratitude and appreciation, and I will always be "THANKFUL" to them all.
So next time when you see someone in uniform, either the emergency services or the defence forces, please thank them for what they do for us, because they are never often enough by us in the community, being thanked or acknowledged for the sacrifices they make.
"SO TO ALL OF YOU OUT THERE WEARING A UNIFORM, I SAY THANK YOU," and leave you with a quote of hope:
"There can be hope only for a society which acts as one big family, not as many separate ones."

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