" Believe, when you are most unhappy, that there is something for you to do in the world. So long as you can sweeten another's pain, Life is not in vain. " - Hellen Keller (1880 - 1968)





A Heart Felt Welcome To You....

I am a mother of 3 children, who has now passed the stage of the "Biological Clock ." I lost my planned and very much wanted precious first child - a son "Nicholas" - at 19 weeks & 4 days gestation, due to birth defects. My 2 other children are the love of my life, and I treasure every moment I spend with them. I am currently studying to be a counsellor while also hoping to finish writing a book this year, about my life's experiences & many challenges.



You can also catch a summary by viewing my complete profile. I'd love you to stay awhile, to hopefully be comforted and inspired by my writing, and enjoy the read! Please post a comment, I would love to hear from you. xxxx



Please click on the Picture of Nicholas' Home Page to read my story of losing my first child "Darling Precious Angel Son In Heaven".













My Memorial Site

I Also Have A Special Memorial Site Named:

"Eternal Names By The Sea"

Especially To Honour Our Precious Loved One's, if you would like to have a look, leave a name request or post a comment, just click on the photo on the right hand side of my page.

Or feel free to click on the link below:

http://eternalnamesbythesea.blogspot.com/

I would love to hear from you xxxx

I am very happy to do this as a special touch from my heart to yours, as the pain of losing a precious loved one is very heartbreaking.

I am always here for you xxxx



Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Why?

Why?....Why?.... Why?....Why?....
After 15 years the pain of losing Nicholas is still so raw and intense, what a difficult week this is for us.

1 comment:

  1. Oh Kay. First off I'm so so sorry that your Dear son Nicholas isn't here with you like he should be. But I'm glad to have 'met' you.

    I thank you in advance for writing Calypso's name into the shore for me. It means the world to me. So much so that I'm almost in tears. My Ocean baby is being remembered at the ocean side.

    I often times think, that truly there is no healing from the loss of a child. but most of the time we learn how to 'deal' with the grief differently. But on these days it's all new again and it's like our hearts are rebroken.

    Please don't be offended if I add you to my blogroll on wordpress

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